You walk into the room, and you’re the main attraction. Remember that. College interviews are a way for colleges to gain information that will help convert your application from a two-dimensional paper to a living, breathing person with a story worth telling. While it’s not nearly as valuable a process as it once was, the college interview is still an event worth preparing for so that you can build yourself a skillset to approach interviews later down the road.

Confidence, first and foremost, is the key to success in an interview setting. It’s imperative to remember that an interview is simple. The pressure that comes from interviewing is an internal perception that you are not interesting enough, that you will not be able to find words to properly convey your person, and that the person on the other side of the table is there to attack you. If you’re applying to some of the most prestigious universities in the nation, clearly you have the ambition and the drive to succeed; channel that motivation into your interview. You are certainly interesting enough, and if you have difficulty communicating in interview settings, find a friend to practice with.

Colleges differ in the process used, but generally the interview will be conducted by a volunteer alumni of the university. You will either have an interview assigned to you or you must request it. If given the option, always request the interview. It demonstrates valued interest in the school, and proves that you care about your application beyond superficial reasons. Interviews can be conducted in person, on the phone, or over Skype, but regardless of the medium of communication, the general theme is the same: get to know you and your qualifications. Some interviews, such as Harvard University’s, will require you to fill out a specific form that acts as your resume, others will require a resume, and still others will request nothing more than your presentable self. Be ready to discuss the great things that you’ve done throughout your high school career. The difficulty and intensity of questioning differs wildly based on your interviewer, but remember that your mindset is ultimately what sets the bar: imagine yourself doing well, and you will.

As proper etiquette, arrive earlier than necessary in order to ensure that there is available seating and to set a good impression. Dress in a way that makes you feel confident. Of course, listen to any formal requests from the interviewer, and don’t show up in rags. Distressed jeans may be fine for the street, but sew them up for the interview. There is no required time limit for interviews, and depending on the flow of the conversation, your’s could last from 20 minutes to two hours. Don’t sweat the time, don’t worry too much about your outfit, and ignore the venue. The single most important part of the interview is simply you.

In recent days, the interview is less valued in the admissions process. A good interview will not get you through the door, but a poor one may keep you out. Do as best you can, and be happy with the version of yourself that you present. However, keep a level-headed perspective, and don’t stress too highly about a secondary portion of the application process. Good luck.